In Praise of Older Mothers

by Barbara Hannah Grufferman

Full disclosure: I am an older mother. My first daughter was born when I was almost 38, and my youngest entered the world three days before my 41st birthday. Even though I’m 54 and going through the tumultuous teenage years, I wouldn’t have it any other way. […]

Our Time Has Come (Update)

The worldwide response to this:

Has, in part, been this:

http://au.news.yahoo.com/thewest/a/-/breaking/10399389/older-mums-can-be-better-parents-say-doctors/

http://www.geelongadvertiser.com.au/article/2011/10/05/283721_news.html

http://www.abc.net.au/local/stories/2011/10/04/3332223.htm?site=perth

http://www.thejakartaglobe.com/opinion/a-new-kind-of-motherhood-statement/468702

http://blog.sfgate.com/sfmoms/2011/09/28/how-old-is-too-old-to-have-kids/

http://sharon.patch.com/articles/she-relates-to-nicole-kidman-halle-berry-and-madonna

http://www.news.com.au/mums-often-have-no-choice-about-right-time-to-have-a-baby/story-e6freuzi-1226161656643

http://weblogs.baltimoresun.com/features/baltimoremomblog/2011/10/too_old_to_be_pregnant.html

Talk (and write) on…

Our Time Has Come

New technologies and cultural shifts have created a booming cohort of wrinkled moms and dads with newborn babies. So why do older parents make so many people uneasy? By Lisa Miller
 
Note the latest issue of New York Magazine featuring a…Midlife Mother! The topic? New mothers over 50. There’s been much criticism of this article, with commentators believing it is negatively skewed – reflecting  time-old common societal perceptions of women and middle age – rather than promoting this as the latest chapter in the women’s movement and an inspiration for future generations of women.
For me, the issue is just about enlightening the public.  At this point, I’m not interested in whether the commentary is negative or positive. This rapidly common occurrence will, of itself, find level ground. Common concensus will come over (much) time, with years of studies, statistical analyses and commentaries reflecting the various sides and aspects of new older mothering.
For now, we have the brewhaha that all this creates. Talk on…and read more about it on….http://nymag.com/news/features/mothers-over-50-2011-10/
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