Tag Archives: New older mothers

Perspective (It’s All About Perspective)

In my older age (NOT old age) I have noticed something. Call it an Oprah-Aha-moment. Or wisdom that comes with gray hair – of which I have none yet, thank you very much. Or clarity. Or Karma. Whatever it is, … Continue reading


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Sticks and Stones

Dear Reader: Our very own UK-based Ellie Stoneley has been shortlisted for the prestigious Brilliance in Blogging award for her blog, Mush Brained Ramblings. Here is her latest work: “Sticks and stones may break my bones But names will never hurt … Continue reading


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Motherhood, with Gratitude

I finally saw the NURTURE: Stories of New Midlife Mothers* photo exhibit. I’ve seen many of the photos on the website, of course, and knew about the project before I started blogging here. I consider the creator of this whole … Continue reading


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Being Ageless – Resilience!

Recently, I’ve been focusing on inspiring people to Be Ageless. Many of you may imagine that’s about exercise, vitamins, and green-tinted healthy shakes — and it partially is — but one of the greatest keys to agelessness might surprise you: … Continue reading


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Older Mom, Growing Older

The average life expectancy for women in the U.S. is anywhere from 73.5 to 86 years of age. As the 48-year-old mother of a three-year-old, if I kick when I am 73.5, I’m going to be pissed. That said, I … Continue reading


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South for the Winter – Or Just a Week…

The girls and I are just back from Florida, where my mom and dad live three months of the year. Nowhere else are so many generations from so many cultures on display than Florida in wintertime. Our flights were full … Continue reading


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The Soapbox: In Defense of Older Mothers

Dear Reader: Here’s a great piece in “The Frisky,” on new older mothers: Magazines seem to love writing about women’s choices, particularly if they can inspire readers to conclude that we’re making the wrong ones. Just before the new year, a … Continue reading


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Love That Rings True

I met my husband swing dancing in Grant Park in downtown Chicago when I was 38 years old.  We dated for a couple of years and I was one month into my fortieth year when I walked down the aisle.  … Continue reading


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Geriatric Or Just Wise?

“Age is an issue of mind over matter.  If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter” – Mark Twain I’ve been asked so many times what it feels like to be an ‘older Mother.’ It always strikes me as a silly … Continue reading


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Food for Thought: The Digestion Process

You probably haven’t given your colon a great deal of thought, unless you’ve ever had to prep for a colonoscopy. Now, I’m going to ask you to look at your colon in a whole new way. It’s the key to … Continue reading


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