Category Archives: Adoption

Parenting Colour-Blind

I prayed for the woman in Haiti who would be the mother of the child we would be adopting. I felt in my heart it would be a little girl. The required adoption course seemed like a mundane step on … Continue reading


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Special Delivery – from Haiti

Reflecting on my first Mother’s Day, now three years later, my thoughts and memories are as powerful as if it was yesterday. Each morning I wake up, no matter how tired I am, and realize that I don’t take for … Continue reading


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Six Things Adoptive/Foster Families Need When New Children Arrive

This was the question, What would have helped you the most in the early weeks and months of adding a child to your family through adoption or foster care? If somebody had asked you, “What can I do to help?” … Continue reading


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Untangling the Web: The Internet’s Transformative Impact on Adoption

Dear Reader: This is a fascinating “read,” especially for those people deeply entrenched or working within the adoption community. Here’s the synopsis and a link to the material - “Untangling the Web: The Internet’s Transformative Impact on Adoption” is the … Continue reading


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Done

Done: This mother of babies has retired. The email surprised me. Apparently the Chinese orphan we had sponsored for the last five years had been adopted. Not three days earlier I had finally shipped off a package of specially selected … Continue reading


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Putin Signs Law Barring U.S. Adoptions (A Commentary)

Dear Reader: Please read a portion of the Huffington Post article on Putin’s barring of U.S. Adoptions and my Huffington Post commentary: MOSCOW — Defying a storm of domestic and international criticism, Russia moved toward finalizing a ban on Americans … Continue reading


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Adoption in the Media: What Do Pregnant Women, Killers and Crying Babies Have in Common?

When we don’t fully understand something, we’re prone to make mistakes when dealing with it. This not-very-profound truism popped into my head recently as I was thinking about how to lead into a new commentary – the one you’re reading … Continue reading


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Adoption – Paying it Forward (A Comprehensive List of Resources) In Honor of Adoptive Mothers Everywhere

It has been over nine years since we brought our youngest daughter into our home and I continue to be astonished by the layers that adoption has brought to our life as a family, my work as a mother – … Continue reading


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Adoption Tax Credit (In Honor of Adoption Awareness Month)

Dear Reader: With Adoption Awareness Month set for November, we’re posting this in support of the movement and to benefit all those choosing adoption. Save the Adoption Tax Credit is an effort of the Adoption Tax Credit Working Group—a collaboration … Continue reading


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I Will Honor Her (In Honor of My Daughter’s Birth Mother)

“Can you imagine that someone just threw her away?” Seven years later, these words are still as sharp and wrong as the day they were innocently uttered. Carrying our youngest daughter into church that day, I did not turn around … Continue reading


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